infidelity save marriage familiar dan savage recognize sentiment syndicated savage love column mistake straight people imposing monogamous expectation men men expected monogamous

thats savage told new york times magazine feature length story thinks infidelity ok save marriage

the sex columnist recently fell national limelight gets better campaign aimed letting troubled gay teens know theres life bullying regular readers savage love wont shocked hear hes advising couples allow occasional infidelities long theyre honest partners bring diseases home

but hotly debated displays infidelity congressman anthony weiner california governor arnold schwarzenegger debate does timely