I&#039;m a&nbsp;45 year old gay male and I live in East Orlando.&nbsp;I have a dilemma: My  ex wants me to replace his mattress because I ejaculated on it. Apparently, there was an &ldquo;unbearable&rdquo; smell that came about recently due to the heat and humidity where he now lives.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I am not sure that this &ldquo;stench&rdquo; is entirely or at all mine. My ex has a cat that peed on items of furniture in the past. Can he be sure that the smell is not from the cat? I have been ejaculating for years now and have never had a problem with smell. I also warned my ex before we had sex that I ejaculate during anal sex. There was an opportunity to stop/grab a towel, but my ex did not stop. In fact, my ex caused me to ejaculate countless times and he seemed to enjoy every second of it. This ex now lives in a different city on the other side of the country, but we have friends in common.&lt;br&gt;Should I pay for the replacement mattress?