university study finds skinny wife= happy marriage k viewpoint taken observation study interesting interestingly article written assumption happiness marriage wifes thinner husband automatic article i just wonder writer paused wonder wives studies thinner marriage happy felt fulfilled way marriage happy thinwhat women know feel good care look makes feel good theyre likely let overweight pride looks i think womens relationship spouse makes feel interesting desirable place thinness result feeling satisfied likely case womens thinness cause marriages success maybe marriages rewarding partners scored high satisfaction level tests wives relationships arent gorging m&ms comforting jersey shore night feel unattractive husbands maybe instead theyre slipping sexy having fun husband makes feel good i believe writer article did pause consider possible sequence events study article written incredibly shallow male gaze perspective