What about the people stuck in between? My fiance, who I have dated for almost four years, is stuck. He came here illegally almost 10 years ago, since then he has paid taxes every year, speaks english better than I, does not have a license (and does NOT drive a car), he has never been in any kind of legal trouble, doesn&#039;t drink, smoke, or do any kind of drug, and has not seen his parents since he left over 9 years ago. All he wants out of life is to have a stable job, a loving family, and to see his parents before they die. We are planning to marry in 2011 and it scares me to death. Everyone&#039;s quick response is that once we marry he will obtain legal status, NOT TRUE! There is no hope for him or me now unless there is some type of immigration reform. Under the laws now his brother and his wife have more rights to be married and live in the USA than I do as an american. There has to be a compromise, there is no way 12 millon illegals are going home no matter what anyone says so we have to meet each half way we have to.