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&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;I&#039;ve always taught my 4-year-old son that people are people, regardless of skin color. His father isn&#039;t the most tolerant person, but he&#039;s never taught my son anything to the contrary. So it surprised me in the supermarket when my son pointed at a black man and told me to not go near because &quot;they are the enemy.&quot; What should I do?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Amanda, 21, white, Louisville, Ky.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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