 &lt;p&gt; If there&amp;#39;s one message Milan Nelson sought to promote through the Rainbow Alliance she founded earlier this year at Kankakee Community College, it was this:&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; &amp;quot;Just be awesome to each other.&amp;quot;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; But digging deeper, one finds a